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For the Attractive Helpmate Planning a Account Wedding! 12 Things Your Bells Can Do Without

Weddings are ridiculously big-ticket and accept been for ages. Unfortunately, there’s a accomplished huge industry whispering in your ear from a adolescent age, about what the absolute bells entails. But this isn’t a column about the big, bad bells industry — it’s a column about how to plan a account bells that’s affected and memorable.

The ambush to authoritative your bells account is anecdotic aboriginal on what you charge and what you don’t. In truth, there are alone a few things your bells needs: a -to-be apron you love, an officiant, and witnesses. The rest, from the dress to the flowers to the aliment is all optional. Your job is to assort all that added bells being as a must-have, nice-to-have, or a don’t-need. If you accept your affection set on a affable release, that’s accomplished — but apperceive that you’ll accept to accommodation about to accomplish that assignment financially.

To advice you bang off that anticipation process, actuality is a account of 12 things your bells apparently doesn’t need.

1. In-person guests

Wait…what? Acknowledgment to the coronavirus pandemic, awash contest are anathema at the moment. That trend is acceptable to abide for a continued time. And while you absolutely didn’t dream of a basic bells as a little girl, anticipate of the positives now. You don’t accept to serve food. Heck, you don’t alike accept to book invites or buy table decorations or affair favors. No one’s activity to get bashed and accomplish a scene.

The accepted ambiance is additionally far added controllable, which lowers the affairs of annihilation awe-inspiring happening. (At my own wedding, one of my bridesmaids anesthetized out in the average of the commemoration and had to be abject abroad in advanced of my abashed guests.) And finally, you and your accomplice can adore a added affectionate ambience on your appropriate day.

For some administration on how to cull off a basic account wedding, see this Brides guide.

2. Printed save-the-dates

Skip the postcard and use agenda invites or the ancient buzz alarm to let your guests apperceive back you’re accepting married. It’s not like the printed agenda improves the affairs addition will appearance or not appearance anyway.

3. A able bells planner

If you’re organized, you can plan alike an busy account bells after the advice of a professional. Angular on your reliable bestie, your mom, or your maids to advice you with the account of to-dos. Use technology too. There are a agglomeration of wedding planning apps that can accumulate you and your aggregation on point.

4. Ancestors alert removed

If you charge accept guests, accumulate the account tidy. Every added name is addition aperture to feed, addition allure to send, etc.

5. Able beard and makeup

This ability be one of those basic items (like the doves). But afore you pay top-dollar for a stylist, accede your amphitheater of accompany as options. You apparently accept a adherent who’s abundant a architecture and addition who’s adept with updos. Alarm on those girls or guys to advice you. Or, if you’re adequate with it, do your own bells makeup and appearance your beard in a simple, affected ponytail. Ask your bells affair to do the same.

6. Veil/extravagant headpiece

Try a floral headpiece, headband, or band instead of a cher veil. See our column on wedding blind alternatives for added ideas.               

7. Academic wear

A dress you feel attractive in is a must-have, but you don’t charge a pricey, formal, white, beaded gown. Abrasion a chiffon summer dress and sandals if you appetite — it’s your day afterwards all. By the aforementioned token, the guys in your commemoration don’t accept to abrasion tuxes. Let them abrasion apparel or alike shorts for that matter. Set the dress cipher based on the acquaintance you appetite to create.

8. Department-store bells registry

When I got married, Aaron and I absolved about Macy’s with a sales accessory and acicular out all the being we’d like to have. It was adequately time-consuming and a blow overwhelming. We were afraid about impaired being like how our choices would reflect on us. Were we acrimonious out things that were too big-ticket or not big-ticket enough? And at the end of it all, the best advantageous allowance we accustomed was cold, adamantine cash.

You could skip the anthology absolutely or go with a avant-garde wedding registry like Zola that supports banknote gifts, experiences, as able-bodied as that espresso maker you absolutely want.

9. Dinner

Dessert table for the budget wedding featuring handheld berry desserts

If you accept in-person guests, you do charge to accommodate aliment — but it doesn’t accept to be dinner. Try a ablaze brunch for a morning accession or a ambrosia bar in the afternoon. No one will absence the banal broiled craven breast, assurance me.

10. Booze

If your basic but additionally abstract affair is the affable release, abundance was a hosted bar. We spent a fair bulk of chef confined our guests drinks and I don’t affliction it. But this is absolutely an befalling for cost-savings. I’ve been to abounding a account bells area I had to pay for my own drinks, and I still had a abundant time.

11. A bells cake

Go advanced and get a professionally fabricated cake, but don’t acquaint the chef it’s for a wedding. Adjustment a tiered “birthday” block instead. The aberration is that bakers accomplish bells cakes with four layers and block and three layers of filling. Altogether cakes accept two layers of block and one band of filling. Your guests won’t notice.

12. Affair favors

Unless you can cull this off for bargain and in a non-tacky way, I wouldn’t diaphoresis the bells favors. Instead, baptize your tables with Hershey’s Kisses, or accommodate little amusement accoutrements to ample at a bonbon base on the way out. A votive candle with your bells date on it is not activity to aftermost continued in anyone’s house, except for your mother-in-law’s. And alike that’s questionable.

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Tuesday 18th of Baronial 2020

WOW!! I am on a bound account and you hel me accept what i charge for my bells day, Acknowledge you!!

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